Tuesday, May 24, 2016

The Potty-Training Saga

I thought I knew Stubborn until I met Max.

At two and a half, we switched Max to underwear and began potty-training. NINE months later, he had still never pooped in the potty. We tried everything. Bribery. Encouragement. Threats. Nonchalance.

True story, I once forced him into a battle of wills and after three days of holding it, I caved and he won. My dad even bought him a potty seat that played his beloved Thomas the Train music when used, and he told Grandpa to return it. I had visions of him going to kindergarten and returning home to poop in his pants. 



One day, he had a particularly bad accident and was finally fairly upset by it. The next day, he miraculously came to me and told me he wanted to go. Within a few weeks, we suddenly realized he had not had an accident in an entire week. And just like that, at three years and four months, Max finally decided he was ready to be potty-trained.



One more to go...




Thursday, May 12, 2016

Life at home

A quote I heard today: "How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives."
-Annie Dillard

I often get asked how my transition to being home is going. Like a true attorney, my answer invariably goes something like, "It depends..."

The question feels too weighty and complicated to answer in a few remarks today. Instead, here are a few pictures of everyday moments at home this past month for me to remember the good and the bad. 



Daily hug at the bus stop 





"Mom, I made lots of mac and cheese"

And lest anyone thinks being at home with three boys is fun stuff, they were doing this for a good ten minutes before I decided to record it for memory sake... 

Wednesday, May 11, 2016

Kara's Cupcakes

I can't remember why (maybe just to get them out of the house?) but I took the boys for a fun treat to my favorite cupcake place. 


I can't get over how big they are looking

I tried to jump in the picture and they all ran off


Friday, May 6, 2016

Ready for action!

I cannot believe Noah turns six today. Where has our baby boy gone??


He is full of personality, full of energy, and full of new ideas. He told us the other day, "I'm ready for action!" Indeed he is.

We battle all the time but I love him with my whole heart.


Happy birthday Noah bear! 

Wednesday, May 4, 2016

The conversations we have

Co-parenting at its best...