Friday, December 26, 2014

Boys' room

When we first moved in two and a half years ago...


We had the carpet replaced, painted and installed new curtains


Noah's big boy room just in time for Max to move into the nursery...


The train table is courtesy of when my mom discovered online shopping 



And the bed frame is a cheap Ikea frame painted a fun blue


Prepping for Max to move in...



The finished room



This special birth print is from my thoughtful friend Jen!


I regretted my original choice of curtain rods after Noah hung from the curtains and bent them, so we replaced with sturdier ones and also replaced one of the windows that wouldn't close properly.



Next up, bunk beds? 

Saturday, December 20, 2014

Merry Christmas

Our annual video card... wishing you a wonderful Christmas!



Love,
the Chans

Monday, December 15, 2014

Hipster Noah


At least he's still willing to hold mom's hand! 


















Tuesday, December 9, 2014

Morning giggles

The days are hard, the nights even harder. But then we get brief moments like these that remind me that one day this sleeplessness will be worth it.... right?

Saturday, November 29, 2014

Happy Thanksgiving


From the Chans and the Trader Joe's pumpkin cranberry crisps box

Sunday, November 16, 2014

The beginning story of Sam

Early on in my pregnancy, a routine test came back "borderline" for being at high-risk of Sam having Down syndrome.  Lots of things go through your mind when you receive news like that, with one of them being sheer panic about the unknown. 

As I cried out to God, I thought I heard Him say to me, "Your son does not have Down syndrome." I doubted that voice, unsure that it was not just me wishing for it to be true and making it up in my head.  

We decided to take a DNA blood test so we would know for sure. And when the results came back that the baby did not have Down syndrome, I already knew he was going to be a boy. 

The name Samuel means, "the Lord has heard." We did not deliberately choose his name because of this story (really, we just thought Noah, Max and Sam went well together). I do not know what the rest of Sam's life will hold, but I'd like to hope that one day, Sam's name will bring him great comfort, just as it has for me. 

First three weeks







First family photo upon early release from the hospital... don't let my smile deceive you, I think I had slept a total of 2 hrs in the previous 2 days. 




Wednesday, October 29, 2014

Samuel Hunter Chan

Sam arrived Saturday morning October 25 at 5:03 am.  We are all still adjusting, but I wanted to write down his arrival before I forgot in the blur of sleeplessness. 

Friday started off as a fairly uneventful day. I was 3cm dilated but still felt pretty mobile for being 39 weeks along. That night at 1:30am we were awakened by Max crying. As I laid in bed listening to Terah put Max back to bed, I noticed I was feeling a slight cramping that repeated itself a few times. Terah immediately went on high alert and convinced me to call my parents. 

I felt a little silly that we were rushing to the hospital so soon but since I was VERY interested in making sure I got my epidural in time, Terah and my mom convinced me better now than later. We arrived at the hospital by 3am and I was 4 cm with contractions around 6-7 min apart. Since they weren't super painful yet, much to Terah's hesitation, I decided to wait it out before getting the epidural. For some reason I kept thinking I still had plenty of time. 

Around 4:30am I decided they were getting unbearably uncomfortable and asked for the epidural. I was 8cm dilated. The anesthesiologist worked quickly but it still took about 10-15 minutes to set up. My contractions were ramping up in pain exponentially. As he was just about to finish, I hear this Pow! sound over the baby heart rate monitor machine, my water had broke. I immediately scream "I NEED TO PUSH NOW!"

Everything after that was a blur, but I remember vaguely the nurse asking if I could hold the pushing, they were going to try to finish the shot. I thought she was nuts. There was a flurry of activity and somehow they got me to lie down and finish the shot all at once. (Turns out they never even bothered to hook me up to the epidural, they just gave me a shot of something else that gives immediate relief and wears off after an hour.) After one more incredibly painful contraction, the shot kicked in and took the edge off the pain and my desperate need to push. I finally notice a crowd of nurses and doctors had descended upon the room, all ready to go. Everybody seemed to be looking at me but no one was telling me what to do, so I blankly asked, "Am I supposed to push now?" They told me it was up to me whether I wanted to wait for my own doctor to arrive. 

I go through one more contraction and decide not to wait. 2-3 pushes later, my doctor arrives. I make one final push and Sam was out. The nurse later told me that was one of the fastest transitions she had seen. A little more of a dramatic ending then preferred, but in the end, I got my pain meds (well barely) and Sam arrived safe and sound. 






I'm just glad that part is over! 

Friday, October 24, 2014

A moment

We have been roughing the transition to a shared room, which has been dicey, at best. It's left everyone in a fantastic mood, particularly mommy.  

The other day Noah threw a tantrum of epic proportions. For two hours we battled. At one point, he stormed off on his tricycle (we were at a park) and I let him go, hoping it would blow off some steam. After riding a few circles around the small lake, he suddenly stopped and pointed out a rainbow he saw in the water fountain.  I was still seething, but seized the moment to join in his excitement and praise him for finding it. I made some quick remark that we should tell daddy about it later. 

That night, when Noah woke at 2am to his brother screaming in the crib next to him, the first thing he asked is if we could tell Terah he had seen the rainbow.  It's funny how we have completely different memories of the day.  I remembered the day as the Day Noah Had One of the Worst Tantrums Ever, and yet he remembered the rainbow. 

And that is why life with Noah is always an adventure.  


Friday, October 17, 2014

Maternity leave

This time I got smart and started maternity leave early. Most of this first week was spent getting the boys' rooms ready and moving Max into Noah's room, but we had some good moments. 

Lunch date with Max at Costco...

Noah's "quiet time" next to me in bed... 


Terah's co-workers have a sense of a humor... 



(those are earplugs)

Late afternoon stroll at the park... 


Visit to the pumpkin patch... 



This is what happens when you ask your 4 year old to take the picture but he's more interested in the large pumpkin... 


And of course this is the only place they were both willing to sit, where there are conveniently no pumpkins. 


Indulging myself with hot chocolate and apple pound cake one morning on my way to a doctor's appointment


and solo evening walk... 


The rooms are now done, the baby clothes are washed... now I'm hoping to enjoy this down time as long as possible! 

Sunday, October 5, 2014

Friday, October 3, 2014

Top reasons you know you're towards the end

1. I literally forgot my entire purse the other day. Just got in the car and left for the day

2. I spent three hours yesterday morning (including driving all the way to the city) wondering if I was having severe pregnancy-related vision loss. Only to realize I had put my left contact lens in my right eye and my right contact lens in my left eye.

3. I have been having this recurrent dream of showing up in the office with no pants.

In other news, we have nothing ready, no crib, no car seat installed, no baby clothes washed, and I still need to google how to breathe during labor... But I now have matching outfits!

Friday, September 26, 2014

Classic Noah

Terah had to sand and paint a closet pole replacement, and let Noah help. 

As he's sanding, he instructs his dad: "You watch the pole, I'll watch TV." 


Grandpa with the boys


Wednesday, September 3, 2014

Noah and the Alphabet

We have been deliberately relaxed (or lazy) about Noah and his academics.  I have encountered enough highly functioning Adults Who Behave Badly at work that cause us to focus on other life-worthy preschool lessons like how to play nicely and... you can't throw tantrums every time you don't get your way.

However, we live in a competitive and high achieving area and it turns out most children know how to read by the time they enter kindergarten. Considering Noah knew absolutely none of his alphabet, I thought it may be time to focus on it a little. A few weeks ago, he happened to choose an alphabet book about jets from the library and wanted to read it every night. After a week of this, it finally dawned on me to ask him to tell me the letter first. He is now able to remember more than half. I'm sure he knows the jets more than the actual alphabet, but at least we're making some progress?

For the grandparents...



When we showed him this video, he was cracking up at himself for being so squirmy and told us, "I didn't do that!" Uh yes Noah, newsflash, you are always this spastic.

Friday, August 22, 2014

18 Months

Sometimes I reflect on the absurdity of my days... a waddling pregnant mom of two active boys pretending to be an attorney when I can. Nevertheless, Max turned one and a half last month and is moving full speed ahead to boyhood.





At 18 months, he has discovered running. When you say "diaper change" he starts running. When you say "Max, too far" he gives a mischievous smile and keeps running.


A man of few words, he uses whining and grunts to get his way.



He is now holding is own in the realm of I-take-toys-from-my-brother and we can no longer assume Noah is in the wrong.


Adopting the "no hands" philosophy, he absolutely refuses to hold anyone's hands when walking. Not sure how I will be transporting three kids through a parking lot with that kind of attitude.



This child has a temper. If the trains aren't working for him, he will bang them vigorously against the table in frustration.



He is turning out to be quite the little jokester, and we are all enjoying the laughter he brings.



Come to think of it, I believe I just described the classic toddler. Max is now a toddler indeed!